Divorce

Published on: January 26, 2021

“Separation” anxiety? What you need to know about preparing for a divorce in Maryland

Please join our family law department chair and senior partner, Monica Scherer for a Zoom session on February 4, 2021 at 5:00 p.m. She will discuss the basics of divorce and how to start getting prepared for what lies ahead. Please feel free to submit general questions in advance which Monica will answer during the session. Each session is approximately one hour. The fee is $100.00 and can be paid through our website www.silvermanthompson.com . Once payment and the completed intake form are received, you will receive a Zoom link for the session.

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Please be advised an attorney-client relationship is NOT created by participation in this informational session.

Published on: December 24, 2020

Common Questions About Protective Orders In Maryland

By Monica Scherer

What is a Protective Order?

By Maryland statute, a Protective Order is a court order that says one person must refrain from doing certain acts against another person. While not legally accurate, many people commonly refer to a Protective Order as a Retaining Order or Ex-Parte.

Who can obtain a Protective Order in Maryland?

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Published on: December 24, 2020

Common Questions Regarding Child Custody In Maryland

By Monica Scherer

It is important to be aware that Maryland Courts and Orders recognize two parts to custody in the State of Maryland, physical custody and legal custody.

What does Physical Custody mean in Maryland?

If you have physical custody of your child, it means that you have the right and obligation to provide a home for your child at given times, and to make the day-to-day decisions required during the time your child is actually with you. In Maryland, physical custody can be primarily with one parent and your child visits the other parent or shared between the parents.

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Published on: May 7, 2020

Are the Courts Holding Uncontested Divorce Hearings During COVID-19 Closures?

By Monica Scherer

The COVID-19 pandemic has swept the nation, causing uncertainty in its wake. While many essential businesses and government offices have shut down, the Maryland courts have been diligent in figuring out how certain matters can still be heard. While the Maryland courts may be restricted, many are still conducting uncontested divorce hearings at this time. If you and your spouse have an uncontested case that is ripe for testimony, the following courts are accepting new filings and may be able to hear your case now:

Circuit Court for Baltimore County: The Circuit Court for Baltimore County is now conducting remote uncontested divorce hearings as long as two attorneys are involved.

Circuit Court for Kent County: Beginning the week of May 5, 2020, the Circuit Court for Kent County is slated to conduct remote uncontested divorce hearings that are ripe.

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Published on: May 5, 2020

Common Questions about Divorce in Maryland

By Monica Scherer

What is an Absolute Divorce?

The effect of Maryland’s absolute divorce is parallel to a traditional divorce; it is the final termination of the marriage. In an absolute divorce, custody, visitation, and child support terms between both parties are set, both parties are granted the right to live separately and apart, a legal name change may be granted (the resumption of a former name), and even remarry if they choose. An absolute divorce also allows the court to decide on matters regarding alimony and marital property, including any division of assets, transfer of retirement interests, and any other equitable distribution of real property, personal property and pension/retirement assets acquired during the course of the marriage. Ultimately, both parties are granted the right to sever all legal and financial ties from one another.

What are the grounds for divorce in Maryland?

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Published on: April 22, 2020

Petition for Contempt as a result of COVID-19

By Monica Scherer

Some parents are facing difficult decisions during this COVID-19 pandemic, including whether their children should be physically near a parent that is working with the public. For some families, it means that one parent temporarily lives in another part of the house. A related CNN article can be found here. For other families, it means one parent temporarily lives in another place altogether. A related ABC article can be found here.

But, for co-parents that live in separate households, the thought of children being near a parent that is a first responder, a front-line worker, or an essential employee can lead to even more difficult decisions. The guidance from the Maryland Judiciary is clear:

All court orders for a child’s custody, parenting time, and child support are still in effect. In some situations, if permitted under the court order, custodians can jointly adjust their shared parenting responsibilities in ways that they agree are best for the children. If custodians are not able to agree, the court order controls.

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Published on: April 20, 2020

Flexibilty Is The New Normal

By Monica Scherer

The spread of COVID-19 has stressed many family dynamics on a daily basis. Kitchen tables are now elementary school classrooms and backyards now host recess. With Maryland’s Stay-At-Home Order still in place, children and parents are finding themselves working through finding a new normal. COVID-19 Escalates in Capital Region

Parents that share time with their children between different households face an even larger set of challenges. Court orders that define parenting time, holiday schedules, and other child-focused decisions often do not help guide parents through questions like: “What happens in a global, viral pandemic?”.

With the seeming constant change to regulations and recommendations, the best recommendation is flexibility, while understanding your Order remains in place absent an agreement to deviate. Communicate with your children and your co-parent to make the best decision possible for your children and your collective family. Each day may bring new challenges and it is important that co-parents do their best to communicate about those challenges and remain open and flexible to the resolutions. Family flexibility is the new normal.

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Published on: April 10, 2020

How have other State courts responded to emergency petitions for custody due to COVID-19?

By Monica Scherer

As fears surrounding COVID-19 continue to increase and parents in divided households struggle to do what they think is best for their children’s health and safety, below are two examples of how emergency requests have been handled in other States, Florida and New Jersey.

In Orange County, Florida a mother filed for temporary custody of her child after first-responder (firefighter/EMT) father did not voluntarily agree to allow her to keep their child in her care until the Florida’s state of emergency due to COVID-19 ends. The Judge denied the mother’s request stating there was no evidence the father was failing to take proper safety precautions or otherwise acting in a way to place the child in danger. The Judge further found “there is no evidence indicating the continuation of timesharing would subject the minor child to any risk of harm specific to the actions of behavior of the father”. The full news article can be found here.

In New Jersey, a father filed for temporary custody of his child after the mother, a physician, continued to see patients in person in the hospital during the COVID-19 outbreak. The New Jersey Court granted an emergency order and awarded the father temporary custody of the child. After the mother was able to commit to telework/health and to not see patients in person, the Judge reversed the Order. The full news article can be found here.

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Published on: April 9, 2020

Seven Guidelines for Parents who are Divorced/Separated and Sharing Custody of Children during COVID-19

By Monica Scherer

The AFCC is the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts. It is a group of individuals from many disciplines associated with or in the family court arena. AFCC members include lawyers, mediators, judges, psychologists, counselors, social workers, parenting coordinators, psychiatrists, researchers, teachers, and policymakers throughout the country. The AFCC recently released seven guidelines for parents who are divorced/separated and sharing custody of children during the COVID-19 pandemic. While these guidelines are not mandated, they provide knowledge and principles of good practice in navigating this crisis. A summary of the seven guidelines as set forth by the AFCC are:

1. BE HEALTHY: Comply with all CDC, local and state guidelines and model good behavior for your children. This also means to be informed by staying in touch with reliable media sources.

2. BE MINDFUL: Be honest about the seriousness of COVID-19, but maintain a calm demeanor for your children. DO not expose your children to endless media coverage, but encourage your children to ask questions and provide them with age appropriate answers.

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Published on: April 9, 2020

Coping with domestic violence during the COVID-19 pandemic

By Monica Scherer

Due to the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, family units are quarantining together worldwide. These sudden movement restrictions aimed towards halting the spread of the coronavirus may be a direct and proximate cause for a surge in domestic violence complaints. A Side Effect of Coronavirus: Maryland Experts say more Domestic Violence, Fewer Victims Seeking Help. According to experts, complaints of domestic abuse often increase when families are forced to spend extensive amounts of time together. Now, with families on lockdown and the government placing restrictions on all forms of public gatherings, the forced proximity and stress of the coronavirus outbreak has become a primary factor in this continuing rise of violence within homes.

In areas such as Baltimore, law enforcement has yet to experience an increase in the volume of domestic violence calls, however Baltimore-area service providers believe that this can be attributed to victims being confined with their abusers, thereby creating an environment in which they are unable to reach out themselves. Domestic Abusers Can Control Your Device. There also seems to be widespread confusion regarding what services and resources are available during this time, which inhibits victims from coming forward.

While the quarantines will eventually end, the danger to individuals in abusive relationships seems to intensify as the confinement drags on. If you or someone you know is currently quarantined with an abusive partner during this pandemic, we encourage you to seek help using the resources and tools provided below. In many states such as Maryland, nonprofit agencies will assist victims of domestic violence either get to a safer location or guide them through securing a get-away plan for when they are ready to leave regardless of a stay-at-home order. The House of Ruth, a domestic violence shelter in Maryland, has thus far maintained its emergency shelter will remain open for women and children during the pandemic. Shelters Gird for Domestic Violence Spike During Covid-19 Outbreak. A link to the complete set of agencies and hotlines still operating during the coronavirus outbreak are provided for your use. Maryland Domestic Service Providers. Additional hotline information is provided for those who wish to contact service providers specializing in domestic abuse for support and guidance. The Maryland Judiciary has provided direction that although Maryland courts are closed for most matters, victims of domestic violence can still seek protective orders during the pandemic. At the present time Petitions are to be filed with the District Court Commissioner and the direction from the Judiciary is to call ahead.

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